For ages, men did not treat
the woman-folk with justice and fairness. That woman was inferior to man in
intelligence, was, for long, regarded as a self-evident truth. All the dull
and uninteresting tasks were, therefore, assigned to her. In the
civilization man built up, woman had to be content with an inferior role. It
is only recently that woman has begun to assert her rights and claim
equality with man. Though the intellectual climate of the present age is
generally favorable to woman's demand for equality, the question of its
validity has not quite emerged from the smoke of the controversy.
No doubt, there are differences between man and woman, but they are in fact
far fewer than those which used to be quoted. Even these few are largely
biological. A potent difference is that in physical prowess. The male
surpasses the female not so much in his capacity for endurance as in the
intensity of his muscular action. He generally runs faster and punches
harder. His red blood corpuscles which carry oxygen from the lungs to the
muscles are ten percent more abundant than those of the female. Then her
feminine (biological) peculiarities and maternal duties not only consume her
energies to no inconsiderable extent, but also confine her indoor for long
periods. All these factors supposedly keep her weaker of the two. Hence the
tasks demanding great physical strength or regular out-door activities, such
as fighting and hunting, were naturally assigned to the man, while the woman
generally took over the lighter and domestic tasks, such as cooking and
washing. As physical strength was an essential value for a primitive group
constantly threatened by other hostile groups, man soon secured for himself
a dominant position in the tribal set up. As this state of affairs continued
for long ages, men consolidated their position of dominance and ruled over
the women-folk with a high hand. Gradually women were reduced to the
position of serfs.
The truth slowly dawned on man's mind that he had over-estimated the value
of physical strength and military prowess. He realized that other abilities
are equally valuable. In modern society, intelligence is valued more than
bodily strength. The psychologists tell us that woman is man's equal in
intelligence and some other abilities. Man is superior to woman in some
abilities but inferior to her in others. For instance, he excels her in
mechanical skill while she surpasses him in linguistic ability.
It is now generally admitted that woman is, on the whole, man’s equal.
Nevertheless, deep down in her unconscious, the inferiority complex handed
down from the immemorial past is firmly lodged. In the advanced countries of
Europe and America, women are working shoulder to shoulder with men in the
fields of science, industry and administration, but they too are impelled by
an unconscious urge to make themselves attractive to men. The greater part
of the money they earn is wasted on dress, make-up and finery. All the time
they can spare, they devote to beautifying themselves. Obviously their main
purpose is to make themselves fascinating and glamorous. This is because
women have been told all the time, on religious authority, that God
originally created man and woman was created subsequently because man felt
lonely. She is, therefore, driven to the belief that she does not exist for
herself but only to fulfil the wishes of man: hence her unconscious desire
to become as attractive to man as possible.
The inferiority complex from which woman suffers has its roots in the remote
past. The social framework which has remained basically unchanged assigned
to her a status much lower than that of man. Man regarded her occasionally
as a goddess, usually as a slave, but rarely as a comrade. In this man-made
society, the dice were heavily loaded against her. The powerful forces of
custom, law and religion were ranged against her. She could not own property
in her own right. She could not choose her own mate. The father could give
her in marriage to any one he liked. If the husband died even when she was
still young, she was not permitted to remarry. Widowhood was her lot for the
rest of her life. Sometimes she was even expected to die with her husband.
The barbarous custom of Sati required her to sit on the funeral pyre of her
dead husband and be burnt alive. Religion too was not kind to her. The
Biblical story of Adam and Eve is hardly fair to her. It is said that God
first created Adam, and then, out of his rib, He created Eve. The rib is
crooked and so devout men were quite prepared to admit the same crookedness
in the nature of woman. The sequel of the story shows that woman is not only
crooked but also weak. She quickly succumbed to the seductions of Satan and
tempted Adam into sin. The story of Adam and Eve, in which Eve plays the
role of a temptress, is widely believed in throughout the Christian world.
The attitude of the Christians towards women is, therefore, tinged with fear
and hostility. To preserve their purity, devout men thought it necessary to
avoid all contact with women. Marriage was looked upon as a necessary evil.
Celibacy came to be regarded as a virtue. Woman was a hindrance to spiritual
progress so, at least the priest, whose sole concern was the soul, had to
remain unmarried.
Such ideas have been in vogue for centuries and, until recently, were to be
found in all parts of the world. The Quran completely changed man's attitude
towards woman. It placed the relation between man and woman on a basis of
equality, exalting neither over the other.
The Quran does not say that man was created first and so has precedence over
woman. It tells us that for every one, life originated from a mono-cell. The
distinction between male and female came at a later stage, and when it
appeared, both of them were very much there :
God created you from a single
life-cell (نَّفۡسٍ۬
وَٲحِدَةٍ۬) and from it created its mate (زَوۡجَهَا
: for man a woman and for woman a
man) and from them twain, has spread abroad a multitude of men and women
(4:1)
Thus, in
the matter of creation, neither had any preferential treatment; nor was
woman responsible for man’s first act of disobedience and his consequent
expulsion from paradise. Both are said to have been led astray by Satan (2:36). According to the Quranic view, man and woman are equally capable of
following the right path and equally liable to fall into destructive ways.
Of course, they are not absolutely the same: in some things men are superior
while in others women surpass them. It is a necessary consequence of the
fact that their roles in life are complementary to each other. They are
equal in worth although different in particular qualities :
God has so created you that one
excels the other (بِمَا
فَضَّلَ ٱللَّهُ بَعۡضَهُم) (in certain respects) (4: 34).
Not that
man excels woman but one excels the other in certain respects and is
surpassed by the other in other respects. For thousands of years, man has
told woman that she is inferior to him not only in physical strength but
also in intelligence and other abilities. Only recently has she realized
that she can equal man in many walks of life. The Quran instills into her
mind ideas of her essential worth and her own capacity. The Quran liberated
woman from her age-long bondage to man. it says :
If men have the potentiality to
develop their personality by harmonizing themselves with the Laws of
Allah, then women also have a similar potentiality ; (إِنَّ
ٱلۡمُسۡلِمِينَ وَٱلۡمُسۡلِمَـٰتِ) if men can be
members of a movement that aims at world peace according to the
inviolable Laws of Allah, then women also can participate in it by
becoming its members; (وَٱلۡمُؤۡمِنِينَ
وَٱلۡمُؤۡمِنَـٰتِ) if, men can restrain their capabilities so as to
develop them within the Laws of Allah, so can women ; (وَٱلۡقَـٰنِتِينَ
وَٱلۡقَـٰنِتَـٰتِ) if men can
vindicate the truth of their conviction through its practical
implementation in life, so can women vindicate it; (وَٱلصَّـٰدِقِينَ
وَٱلصَّـٰدِقَـٰتِ) if men can remain
steadfast on the path they have chosen, so can women; (وَٱلصَّـٰبِرِينَ
وَٱلصَّـٰبِرَٲتِ) if men have the
in-exhaustive capacity to be more and more in harmony with the Laws of
Allah once they are set on this path, so have women this inexhaustible
capacity ; (وَٱلۡخَـٰشِعِينَ
وَٱلۡخَـٰشِعَـٰتِ) if men can sacrifice lower values for higher values, so can
women; (وَٱلۡمُتَصَدِّقِينَ
وَٱلۡمُتَصَدِّقَـٰتِ) if men can exercise control and do not violate the limitations
set on them, so can women; (وَٱلصَّـٰٓٮِٕمِينَ
وَٱلصَّـٰٓٮِٕمَـٰتِ) if men can keep their sexual urge within the
desired limits, so can women; (وَٱلۡحَـٰفِظِينَ
فُرُوجَهُمۡ وَٱلۡحَـٰفِظَـٰتِ) if men can understand the Laws of Allah
and focus their activities in life on them, so can women. (وَٱلذَّٲڪِرِينَ
ٱللَّهَ كَثِيرً۬ا وَٱلذَّٲڪِرَٲتِ) Now if both
men and women have equal capacities and potentialities, their results
should also be the same for both of them. Hence both will enjoy
protection and security, and all other such benefits and joy that will
come out of their deeds (33: 35).
This verse
puts it beyond doubt that men and women are equal in all things that really
matter in social activities. The path of progress is open to both alike and
the reward for achieving it is the same for both:
And whoso does good work, whether
male or female, and he (or she) is a Believer such will enter Jannah and
they will not be wronged so much as the dint in a date-stone (4 : 124).
The Quran
also leaves no doubt in the matter of her right to possess:
What man earns will be his and
whatever the woman earns will belong to her (4: 32).
It will
thus be seen that Quran treats man and woman as equals in all respects. The
fact is that mankind will attain human stature only when it speaks about man
and woman in terms of human beings, and not with reference to sex
distinction. Woman (like man) has her own, personality, and the relation of
personality to personality cannot be a relation of means and end; all
personality is an end in itself.